Malaysia

This January/February, we had the opportunity to visit Malaysia. It was never somewhere that we had planned to go, however, we had a week long vacation and a friend who had recently moved there, so it seemed like the perfect excuse.

We decided take advantage of our friend’s car and Malaysian connections and turned the trip in to a road trip. We were going to cover some ground and see as much as we could in the time that we had scheduled.

First, we started in Kuala Lumpur.

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We only spent one evening in KL. We visited the Petronas Towers, saw the light show and had dinner. I wish we could have spent a little more time here. However, coming from Seoul means that I wanted to escape the city for a while. So it was off to Kuantan, which is the capital city of Pahang!

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On the road to Kuantan, we stopped at the Kuala Gandah Elephant Sanctuary.

We eventually arrived in Kuantan and found our apartment.Word of advice, though, make sure you have asked enough questions of your host before hand. We were in the middle of nowhere and we had no wifi, hot water or air conditioning. We were told of this the morning that we set off on our trip. Sigh. It was fine, though, as we washed using a bucket of boiled water and had a fan on 24/7.  I couldn’t even complain about it on Twitter.

We know, though, that travel is not plain sailing all of the time.

We did still have fun in Kuantan.We spent most of our time on the various beaches where we enjoyed a break from the sub-zero temperatures of South Korea.

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First on the list of places to visit was Sungai Pandan Waterfall. This was a beautiful spot and a great place to spend an afternoon. I wasn’t as fond of the little fish nibbling on my toes the closer I got to the cascading water. 

Later that day, we headed to the beach. The first beach we stopped at was Teluk Chempedak beach. This was really beautiful, it was white and sandy and was lined with pine trees. One other hidden attractions was the fact that we stumbled upon some (frankly terrifying) monkeys.

The Teuk Chempedak area was great for a casual evening. There are buskers, market stalls and lots of lively entertainment.

The next day, we headed to cherating beach. This was a little bit quieter but there was a really nice beach bar that was perfect when the sun went down.

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The next day, we set off for the final place on our itinerary. We were off to the Cameron Highlands. This was my favourite place in Malaysia and somewhere that I had been desperate to see, when we had decided to come to this part of SEA. The photos don’t really do it justice but the green tea fields here were just out of this world. They even made up for the lack of hot water at the start of the trip.

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The real highlight here is the tea fields (and the tea). Another fun thing we did to pass the time was to pick strawberries.

All in all, Malaysia was a great place to visit. There are some beautiful sights and the people are friendly and warm.

What wasn’t as fun was the 7 hour journey back to Seoul with the baby in the front screaming bloody murder. 

It’s a nice day for a Korean wedding

Last month, I had my first opportunity to attend a Korean wedding. I’m not going to lie, I was pretty excited.

My first protocol was, of course, to sort out what I was going to wear. In Ireland, people make a pretty big effort when they are going to a wedding. In fact, some guests make it their mission to look better than the bride and groom. Hats, fasteners, make up, eyelashes, nails, dress, shoes, handbags.

Essentially, the embodiment of Helen from Bridesmaids.

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I posed the question about what an appropriate outfit was and received vastly difference titbits of information.

‘I’ve seen people go in camping clothes.’

‘Just don’t wear anything in light colours, I heard stories about brides who got deadly offended if one of the female guests wore even pink or beige outfit.’

‘It really depends on how close you are to the people who invited you. DO NOT go casual – people will gossip about you if you do and the bride and groom will be pleased if you make an effort – You might end up in their wedding photos (don’t want to be the only one in jeans right?). Wear something office smart or smart casual and don’t go too much above the knee if you wear a dress.’

It was like a wedding minefield. 

I decided on a simple dress. Not too casual, not too fancy, not too bright, not too dark. I felt like the Goldilocks of Korea.

The day arrived and we made our way to Gangnam. The groom worked for Samsung and so the wedding would take place in the Samsung event hall there. We had been informed, before we got there, that we should put money into an envelope for the bride and groom. We would arrive, sign our name, pass over the money and take a ticket for the dinner that would follow the ceremony. The amount of money you give, we were told, would be based on how close you were to the bride or groom.

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We then made our way into the wedding hall. It was huge and not at all what I was expecting. It was not ‘traditionally’ Korean. I think I was expecting something along these lines.

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What I found, though, was completely different.

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This wedding was very modern and, from what I have since been told, this is becoming more and more common for Korean couples.

The only real ‘Korean’ aspect of the wedding was the hanboks worn by some members of the wedding party.

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The only other traditions that this Korean wedding followed was the fact that it lasted around just 20 minutes, people talked quietly as it happened, a man in front of me answered his phone and once we ate our food, we all left and went to find our own fun. No rock the boat at this wedding.

The best part for me, however, was when a Korean couple stood up during the ceremony to sing ‘A Whole New World’.

Amazing.

Turning 28.

I had another birthday here in Korea. I turned 28, which officially makes me 29 in Korea. What a ridiculous country. Oh well, there are worse places I could celebrate turning another year older.

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My beautiful 6th grade class got me a cake and sang happy birthday. Adorable.

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My birthday also happens to fall on Pepero day. Here, you give pepero to your loved ones to make them tall and skinny. My students were being artistic.

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Eating birthday cake with chopsticks. How else?

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Such a cute birthday gift from one of my fifth grade students.

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Enjoying the autumn colours of Bundang park.

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Enjoying the beautiful autumn colours in Bundang park.

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‘No! I don’t want to turn 28! Oh, ok then. Pass the tequila.’

Tokyo

This summer, we spent a long weekend in Tokyo.

The trip got off to a pretty disastrous start. We checked in online but didn’t realise that this was going to put us at the end of a pretty long queue at the airport. So, yes, I cried. We did not have time to be at the end of this queue and were on our way to missing our flight. By the grace of a sympathetic steward, we were able to skip to the front, grab our boarding passes and sprint to the boarding gate.

We would have been relieved had the plane not been delayed.

Eventually, we made it to Japan. We had visited Fukuoka before but this was our first trip to Tokyo. I feel like we were able to cram in a lot of things into our three day visit. We also got to meet up with friends that we hadn’t seen in over a year.

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Tokyo skyline

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Tokyo skyline 

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Tokyo Tower

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Tokyo Tower

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Tokyo by night 

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Hozomon

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Hozomon

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Street food, Asakusa

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Imperial Palace

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Shibuya Crossing 

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Super Mario cars, Shibuya Crossing 

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Wedding at the Meiji Jingu Shrine 

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Japanese food 

When it was time to leave, our trip home was no less eventful. We couldn’t get a taxi, waited outside in the rain for longer than we should have and then had to sprint like Usain Bolt to the train station. By the skin of our teeth, we managed to get the last possible train to the airport. We were feeling pretty smug. That was until the air steward decided to tell us that the flight *might* be cancelled or delayed due to ‘adverse’ weather conditions. We were definitely lacking in the luck department when it came to travel on this trip.

We managed to board the plane on time, but had the most horrific flight home with the worst turbulence I had ever experienced.

Tokyo was worth it though.